Seedling Session
Plant the seed for your relationship tree: we look at your current relationship ecosystem, explore recurring patterns and the next step that feels right. You leave with a first sketch of your relationship tree.
Polyamory · Open relationships · Chosen family
Relationships beyond the norm, shaped consciously.
Coaching for people who are exploring or living polyamory, open relationships or other non-monogamous ways of relating. Open and still committed – in a way that truly works for everyone involved.
- Couples
- Polycules
- Chosen families
- Singles
- Metamours
Questions without role models
Perhaps you’re facing questions like …
More and more people are questioning traditional ideas of partnership. This often raises questions for which society offers hardly any role models: communication, jealousy, boundaries and needs can become complex.
- “We’re thinking about opening our relationship – but we don’t know where to start.”
- “Why does my partner even want to open the relationship?”
- “Jealousy is coming up – and we don’t know how to deal with it.”
- “Can our relationship hold the NRE – the New Relationship Energy?”
- “Polyamory works in theory, but emotionally it’s getting difficult.”
- “The different needs in our network are hard to reconcile.”
In this phase, many people find themselves somewhere between curiosity, uncertainty and the wish for more honesty in their relationships. All of it is welcome here.
My approach
Alternative relationships are not a ready-made model.
Non-monogamous relationships rarely follow a fixed recipe. Every relationship – and every relationship network – develops its own dynamics. That’s why we look at relationships as living systems, in which needs, boundaries, emotions and connections all influence one another – much like in an ecosystem.
We explore these dynamics with The Living Tree Method. I live polyamorously myself, in a family with two partners and our son.
What grows
What people often take away from this work …
It’s not about putting a particular relationship model into practice “correctly” – but about finding out what truly works for the people involved.
- 01more clarity about their own needs and boundaries.
- 02new ways of having difficult conversations.
- 03a deeper understanding of jealousy and emotional dynamics.
- 04steadier structures for polyamorous or open relationships.
- 05tools for shaping relationships that are open and still committed.
- 06more trust in their own path beyond social norms.
Possible first steps
On your own, as a couple or as a constellation
A space without judgement – with curiosity, honesty and respect for everyone involved.
The Constellation
For people who want to shape their relationships consciously: a session for couples, polycules, chosen families or any relationship you’d like to deepen as equals.
Rethinking Relationships
For curious people at the start of their polyamorous journey – singles, couples or groups, no prior experience needed. Takes place on request or a few times a year.
Between sessions, I’m there for you by email or WhatsApp (reply within 48 hours). You’ll find all prices and packages under Offerings & Prices.